Until now, we have been taught that forgiveness is good for us and that good people forgive. Dr. Spring, a gifted therapist and the award-winning author of After the Affair, proposes a radical, life-affirming alternative that lets us overcome the corrosive effects of hate and get on with our lives—without forgiving. She also offers a powerful and unconventional model for genuine forgiveness—one that asks as much of the offender as it does of us. This bold and healing book offers step-by-step, concrete instructions that help us make peace with others and with ourselves, while answering such crucial questions as these: <ul>
<li>How do I forgive someone who is unremorseful or dead? </li> <li>When is forgiveness cheap? </li> <li>What is wrong with refusing to forgive? </li> <li>How can the offender earn forgiveness? </li> <li>How do we forgive ourselves for hurting another human being? </li> </ul>

How Can I Forgive You?: The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not To

Self-Help

Janis A. Spring

Relationships

Harper Paperbacks

After the Affair, Third Edition: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

HarperCollins B and Blackstone Publishing

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Books by Janis A. Spring

See the best price to sell, buy, or rent books by Janis A. Spring. BookScouter helps to compare book prices from 25+ online bookstores and 30+ buyback vendors with a single search.

How Can I Forgive You?: The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not To

After the Affair, Third Edition: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful